How to keep the spark alive in your relationship

How to keep the spark alive in your relationship


A relationship is only as interesting as you are. When you are feeling bored in the relationship, make it a point to 

acknowledge your limits and go outside your comfort zone. Go with it! 

Learning and or doing something new is all you need to bring the spark back to your relationship. Bringing in new elements to your relationship will give you new things to talk about, give you activities to look forward to doing, and help the wellbeing of your relationship. 

Here are some other ideas on how to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship. 

Start a ritual 

Start a ritual you two can commit to; whether it’s a monthly date night at a certain restaurant, vacations you take twice a year, or having sex in a place you haven’t every time you are away from home.

Book a hotel room 

If it’s been a while since you and your partner have been out of the everyday routine book a room for a night or the weekend. Order room service or bring a bottle of champagne with you and just celebrate being with each other. This may be your new ritual. 

Buy something sexy for yourself 

Feeling sexy is imperative in new and adventurous sexual experiences. Pick out lingerie or a introduce a couple’s sex toy as a surprise for your partner…… Psssst you never know this may be just what you need. 

Buy a date night subscription box 

As someone who is in a relationship for a long period of time it’s hard to keep up and plan date nights with my partner monthly and forget about weekly. Getting bored in the relationship is more normal than we think and getting caught up in the routine is just part of the game.

We oftentimes do not have the tools or mindset necessary to deal with these struggles. A subscription date box may help.

Subscribing to D8tebox will not only provide you with tools to work on issues but help you build intimacy and provide tools to work on our communication. So How do you keep the Spark Alive in The 


When you start to feel the loss of the honeymoon stage, even though you are more comfortable with each other, have more security and may even be making 

bigger decisions together, they may also be struggling with experiencing the passion hey once felt. You can keep the spark alive by making it a point to continue to date each other.

Continue to create new memories, recreate sacred ones, and give each other the quality attention you both used to effortlessly give one another. You know your partner better than anyone, so take your time to think through the things they love and enjoy or surprise them with an idea from D8TEBOX.